tea party…

As I was washing windows on the weekend, I started to think about what a shame it is to waste a freshly cleaned house (believe me…I don’t do it often…and it doesn’t stay that way for long). The next crazy thought that drifted into my brain was the idea of a tea party–an unabashedly girly ritual. Do any of us still have Sunday dresses in our closets? Or is all available closet real estate devoted to jeans and frilly blouses?

I just love the quaint notion of linen napkins, sipping proper tea in china cups–none of this tea bag nonsense–go loose leaf or go home. And then there are those ethereal finger sandwiches…sigh. I’ve always been a sandwich girl. The finger sandwiches were always the first thing I made a bee line for at Church teas every Sunday (imagine a chubby, bespectacled redhead ripping off her choir gown and flinging sheet music on the way to the church kitchen). In my opinion, the best day for afternoon tea is Saturday. That way, you have the morning to get ready, the afternoon to enjoy, and ALL day Sunday to recover!

At first, I thought it was called High Tea, but that’s not correct. The proper term is Afternoon Tea. It all started with a hungry Queen, who couldn’t make it through the afternoon and evening until dinnertime at 9 p.m. She started having tea with buttered bread around 3 p.m., then she started to invite her gal pals over for tea, and the whole lazy lot of ’em sat around munching on sandwiches, scones and jam. High tea, on the other hand, is more like dinner served between 5 and 7 p.m., with cheeses, meats, pickles, etc. More manly and working-class-ish, apparently.

Some of the snootier folk take this quite seriously, and scoff at anyone who accidentally calls afternoon tea, high tea (like every hotel in North America). So here are some elements that I think any decent tea party should have…


Really simple. If you really want to make them extra-special, you can order special sandwich loaves at your favourite bakery. Ask them to remove the crusts for you. Otherwise, start with a really good loaf of white bread. Finger sandwiches need to be buttered (real butter) so they don’t become soggy. Spread a layer of cream cheese on top of one of the buttered pieces. Top with thinly sliced peeled cucumber. Sprinkle with salt and pepper to taste. Now, you can stop there, or you can add finely chopped chives or mint. Yummmm. Make sure to cut off the crusts and slice in diamonds, or use a round cookie cutter. Easy peasy.

Photo is courtesy of How To Be Pretty (you can click on each of the photos which have hyperlinks to the source).

photo courtesy of How To Be Pretty blogspot


I am getting REALLY hungry writing this post–look at that, it’s almost 4 p.m. Gotta go! Bill Granger of The Sidney Morning Herald included this recipe in his advice column.

Scones with jam and clotted cream

1 tbsp icing sugar
310g (2 1/2 cups) plain flour
1 1/2 tbsp baking powder
A pinch of salt
250ml (1 cup) milk
30g butter, melted
Clotted cream

Preheat the oven to 220C. Sift the icing sugar, flour, baking powder and salt into a bowl. Add the milk and butter and stir with a knife to combine. Knead quickly and lightly until the dough is smooth, then press out onto a floured surface.

Use a glass to cut out rounds (roughly 5cm in diameter and 3cm deep) and place them close together on a greased baking tray. Gather the dough scraps, lightly knead again, then cut out more rounds to add to the baking tray.

Cook for 8-10 minutes, until puffed and golden. Serve with jam and clotted cream.

photo by Quentin Jones via The Sidney Morning Herald


These delectable little fancies are Martha Stewart’s Lemon Meringue Cupcakes

photo courtesy Martha Stewart Living

Makes 24

  • 3 cups all-purpose flour
  • 1 tablespoon baking powder
  • 1/2 teaspoon salt
  • 1 cup (2 sticks) unsalted butter, room temperature
  • 2 cups sugar
  • 4 large eggs, room temperature
  • Finely grated zest of 3 lemons (about 3 tablespoons), plus 2 tablespoons fresh lemon juice
  • 1 teaspoon pure vanilla extract
  • 1 cup buttermilk
  • Lemon Curd (see below)
  • Seven-Minute Frosting (see below)


  1. Preheat oven to 325 degrees. Line standard muffin tins with paper liners. Whisk together flour, baking powder, and salt.
  2. With an electric mixer on medium-high speed, cream butter and sugar until pale and fluffy. Add eggs, one at a time, beating until each is until incorporated, scraping down sides of bowl as needed. Beat in zest and vanilla. Add flour mixture in three batches, alternating with two additions of buttermilk and lemon juice, and beating until just combined after each.
  3. Divide batter evenly among lined cups, filling each three-quarters full. Bake, rotating tins halfway through, until golden brown and a cake tester inserted in centers comes out clean, about 25 minutes. Transfer tins to wire racks to cool completely before removing cupcakes. Cupcakes can be stored overnight at room temperature, or frozen up to 2 months, in airtight containers.
  4. To finish, spread 1 tablespoon lemon curd onto middle of each cupcake. Fill a pastry bag fitted with a large open-star tip (Ateco #828 or Wilton #8B) with frosting. Pipe frosting onto each cupcake, swirling tip slightly and releasing as you pull up to form a peak. Hold a small kitchen torch 3 to 4 inches from surface of frosting, and wave it back and forth until frosting is lightly browned all over. Serve immediately.

Martha Stewart’s Lemon Curd

Makes about 2 cups

  • 8 large egg yolks
  • Finely grated zest of 2 lemons
  • 1/2 cup plus 2 tablespoons freshly squeezed lemon juice (about 3 lemons)
  • 1 cup sugar
  • 1/8 teaspoon salt
  • 1 1/4 sticks (10 tablespoons) unsalted butter, cold, cut into pieces


  1. Combine yolks, lemon zest, lemon juice, and sugar in a heavy-bottom saucepan; whisk to combine. Cook over medium-high heat, stirring constantly with a wooden spoon (be sure to scrape the sides of the pan), until the mixture is thick enough to coat the back of the spoon, 8 to 10 minutes, and registers 160 degrees on an instant-read thermometer.
  2. Remove saucepan from heat. Add salt and butter, one piece at a time, stirring until smooth. Strain through a fine sieve into a medium bowl. Cover with plastic wrap, pressing it directly onto the surface of the curd to prevent a skin from forming. Refrigerate until chilled and set, at least 1 hour or up to 1 day.

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Martha Stewart’s Seven Minute Frosting

Makes about 8 cups

  • 1 1/2 cups plus 2 tablespoons sugar
  • 2/3 cup water
  • 2 tablespoons light corn syrup
  • 6 large egg whites, room temperature


  1. Combine 1 1/2 cups sugar with the water and corn syrup in a small saucepan; clip a candy thermometer to side of pan. Bring to a boil over medium heat, stirring occasionally, until sugar dissolves. Continue boiling, without stirring, until syrup reaches 230 degrees.
  2. Meanwhile, in the bowl of a standing electric mixer fitted with the whisk attachment, whisk egg whites on medium-high speed until soft peaks form. With mixer running, add remaining 2 tablespoons sugar, beating to combine.
  3. As soon as sugar syrup reaches 230 degrees, remove from heat. With mixer on medium-low speed, pour syrup down side of bowl in a slow, steady stream. Raise speed to medium-high; whisk until mixture is completely cool (test by touching the bottom of the bowl) and stiff (but not dry) peaks form, about 7 minutes. Use immediately.


I love Martha, but sometimes a girl’s gotta do what a girl’s gotta do…CHEAT. Love this photo by Bron Marshall Photography.

photo by Bron Marshall


Proper tea just wouldn’t be the same served in a “Best Co-Worker” mug. Get someone else to fetch Grandma’s best china cups and saucers from the back corner of the the spider-ridden attic. You won’t regret it. Don’t forget to iron the “real” napkins and table linens too!

Sophie Conran‘s tableware from Nicole Jane Home.

photo courtesy Sophie Conran

Crazy Daisy tableware from Nicole Jane Home.

Crazy Daisy tableware via Nicole Jane Home


Who can resist the magical “multi-tiered” serving plates with their epicurean siren songs? They draw you closer with the promise of heavenly chive-spiked egg salad finger sandwiches, or petite fours enrobed in sugary pastel glaze…..drooooool.

Tea at the Dorchester Hotel in London. Those girls look like trouble n’est-ce pas?

Photo courtesy The Dorchester Hotel, London

Tiered tea plate via Uniquely Tea blogspot

via Uniquely Tea blogspot

Tea at Down Hall Country House Hotel, Hertfordshire, England.

photo courtesy of Down Hall Country House Hotel, Hertfordshire


What’s a tea party without hats, I asks ya? Ooh la la. I’ll ALWAYS regret (and make Mark pay and pay and pay) not buying that fabulous hat in the little shop in London–it was only 200 English pounds! Could have got a lot of tea partying in with that lovely hat.

photo via Whisty blogspot

photo courtesy Philip Treacy


Com’ on…it would be so much fun to get all gussied up and go out for tea. I miss my mom’s party dresses!!

photo via Pretty Girl's Guide to Everything blogspot

photo via Digs Frocks and Books blogspot


Simply perfect. Loose leaf tea in a silver tea pot. Divine.

photo via NIAHD Journal

4 responses

  1. My grandfather on my mother’s side was born and raised in liverpool, England. he was staunchly English. Tea was to be served and boy was it strong tea. I too prefer tea to coffee any day as well.
    It is just that your picture of the scones with clotted cream remind me of his proper English tea that he had to have. (my mother was born in Texas but grew up in Texas and California). I only knew my grandfather when he lived in California. Some people when they met him stated that he still had an English Accent.
    I now have two young nephews who live in London, England (one was 9 months old when he moved there with my brother and my SIL and the other was born there 8 yrs ago. –The oldest is 10). These two young boys have very strong British accents.
    The other place in the world where tea is a big deal is China. I have a 3 yrs old niece and a 1 yr old nephew who were both born there and still live there. They understand the Mandarin language but because their father(another brother) is American they do understand English too.

  2. Afternoon tea in the company of great women, in a spotless – and naturally superbly decorated home…and in fabulous hats! What could be better. I love the delicate finger sandwiches and scone with clotted cream. Yum! I’m an absolute tea lover myself, and found this amazing tea company based in Paris (I buy it in a little tea shop in Madrid, but you can buy it in Vancouver as well) it’s called THE O DOR..my favourite is “Je t’aime”. Enjoy your tea…

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